Dec 31

Tonya B. Is Resolution Free…still.

Original Post December 31, 2009…minor changes made today.

As I enter a new day, a new month, a new year – the first day of 2012, I am free of resolutions…again. I’m sure I won’t make it to the gym as often as I should (I went 1 time in 2011, but only to deliver a marketing plan), chances are some negative *ish will enter my life, I am almost positive I won’t stop drinking; and although I’m way more relaxed than I was when I originally wrote this, my use of profanity may not decrease much. I’m going to take one day at a time, diligently trudge towards my goals, and handle each situation, good or bad, as it comes along.

I wish I had a magic wand to ‘poof be gone’ all the nonsense, but life is not a fairy tale. Truth be told, some of us truly think we are going to wake up and all of 2011′s troubles will be gone. As always, I’ve been reading your social networking posts and many of you think the click of the “delete” button will solve your problems, but clicking the add, like, or follow buttons didn’t create them. If you will, please use that as a metaphoric insight into your life. Most troubles don’t come overnight; thus, they surely can’t be resolved overnight. In 2012, take time to evaluate every aspect of every situation and take responsibility for your involvement. From that point, you can start making necessary changes…do better, get better.

I wish the best for all of you and your endeavors. Make vision boards, achieve old goals, walk away from unattainable ones, set new ones, and keep a positive outlook on your future. Meanwhile, I’m going to eat what I want, think about doing some situps, sip on some egg nog, and begin working on vision boards with my daughters.

Happy New Year y’all!


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  1. Curtisha Emerson

    Oh, ‘Tonya Winfrey’, saying farewell to the old and hello to the ‘new’. Thanks for your optimistic words of wisdom and entertaining sarcasm. U r just what it is, u know when people use that phrase ‘it is what it is’..and ‘real talk’…..thats u. May the New Year bring u more wisdom as well as bless us with more of your lovely sarcasm…..WE LOVE U…Happy New Year!!!!

  2. JustTonyaB

    Curtisha, you are welcome and thank you; I love you lady! I truly wish much success. Happy new year!

  3. Alfred Ward

    Happy New Year! Good advice!

  4. JustTonyaB

    Happy new year Alfred!

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