Category Archive: relationships

Aug 21

Oh, You Don’t Need a Man?

Lately, I’ve heard so many women say, “I don’t need a man!” It’s not a new mantra, but I’ve heard it so much more lately that it’s puzzling. Seriously though, when did needing someone become a bad thing? Why is it taboo to say that you need the person that you’ve chosen to be in …

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Mar 27

A Funny Thing Happened on the Way to the Rest of My Life (Updated 3/30/17)


3 months ago, I realized that on this day last year, I wrote these words: “I do know that I want to be in a relationship with someone that can accept my love and reciprocate in some way…” Apparently, on this day last year, God said, “Finally, she admitted it!” I was completely fed up …

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Aug 24

Tonya B. aka Mt. St. Helens

Mount St. Helens

Last night was the first night in several weeks that I was able to sleep. I went to sleep before midnight and I was able to sleep for more than 6 hours. 5 hours is the norm anyway, so 6 was like winning the lotto. Why did I sleep? I removed a stressor. Then I …

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Jul 14

The Heart Heals Itself

To my friend LBL, I read a news article this morning about a girl that had two hearts beating inside of her. The synopsis of the story read, “Then a miracle happened, the heart healed itself…” Medically, that may very well be a miracle. However, when it comes to other matters of the heart, time …

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Apr 22

Danger, She Smashed The Homie

You would only know what the title means if you watch For the Love of Ray J or heard about it from someone who does. I don’t watch television much, but I usually get hooked on reality television shows. “For The Love of Ray J” just happened to be my top choice for this season. …

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Apr 15

“I’ve come to realize that I need true love.”

FRIENDSHIP ~ TRUST ~ HONOR ~ RESPECT ~ ADMIRATION Friendship – The state of being in a good relation or attachment to a person; affection arising from mutual esteem and good will; amity. Trust – reliance on the integrity, strength, ability, surety, etc., of a person; confidence. Honor – to hold in high respect; revere …

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